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Fortune Inioluwanimi's avatar

My first kiss also wasn’t what i hoped for. All i can remember was i was in secondary school and i was so anxious. After the kiss, my chest started constricting. It was like the ground should swallow me. What have i done? Broken my vow of purity😭😭

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Chukwumnecherem's avatar

Very very relatable. You only get a first kiss once and I wasted my own on someone I didn't even give a spoon about.

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Lena_xo's avatar

My first kiss was awkward but it's etched to my memory. Under windy trees, on a cool starry night and the crescent moon out. A typical romantic fantasy in real life.

But of course, life just is and life just happens anyway. Weather we want it to or not.

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Akenn2 Neer's avatar

It's so crazy how almost no one's first kiss went as imagined😅

Just mainly awkward feelings

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Joel Ooreofe's avatar

The imaginations of our minds are rather amplified version of what we see and sense from happenings around, and not always reality.

This sets high expectations in our mind and once these expectations are not met. We sometimes become perplexed and feel unfulfilled.

Not a fan of the "live life anyhow" thing but there is so much to pick from this

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thegirlWunmi's avatar

First kisses are a scam😂

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Faisal Babalola's avatar

My first kiss wasn’t what I dreamed of at all, especially cause I was basically coerced into doing it and it happened in front of a lot of people and they just kept on talking about it over and over

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Angel's avatar

My first kiss also wasn’t what I open for. It was an afternoon, and he said he wants to play a game then he proceeded to kiss me. I was confused and then after the kiss he ignored me for two years while I held onto hope it meant something

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Mimi❤️'s avatar

My first kiss was not really what I expected....it was good but it wasn't as good as what wattpad novels made me believe. The butterflies were there, but there was no spark when our lips meet, the earth didn't stop for a minute when our tongues intertwined.

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Angel's avatar

Awwwwwww Tobeeeeeee,

You're an amazing writer

I really enjoyed this write up

Got me smiling like a fish and remembering how I wanted my first kiss to be 🤭 🤭 🤭

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Yvonne Matylda's avatar

Mine wasn’t special either.

The best part of my day is getting this email. I’m loving these news letters a little too much.

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Vanessa imhanlobe's avatar

My first kiss didn’t go as I thought it would. It was like my mind had separate plans cos I ended up crying and I didn’t know why😂😂…. But now I guess I was just too anxious and scared

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Feyisayo Fasina's avatar

If I was the girl, I will look for you and make you fall in love this time around. Because you have grown to be a very amazing man.

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Feyisayo Fasina's avatar

If I was the girl, I will look for you and make you fall in love this time around. Because you have grown to be a very beautiful man.

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Feyisayo Fasina's avatar

If I was the girl, I will look for you and make you fall in love this time around. Because you have grown to be a very beautiful man.

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Feyisayo Fasina's avatar

If I was the girl, I will look for you and make you fall in love this time around. Because you have grown to be a very beautiful man.

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Mavis🌹's avatar

Yes I remember my first kiss, I had butterflies in my belly but I now regret it.

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