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Lucy's avatar

First time reader here. Your writing is beautiful and it’s refreshing to see someone write things I couldn’t put into writing or even accept. Thank you. And yeah, we all need therapy.

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Oluwasemilore's avatar

It’s how I can relate to this so bad, lol, and yea we all need therapy but your writing is enough therapy for me☺️ thank you Tobe🥹❤️

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Irumheson favour's avatar

Alot of us need therapy.... personally I'm just looking for a good one to go to

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Favour Iredia's avatar

Hiii boo

I commended your writing the last time but this time, it’s even mind blowing

Have you thought about what your friend said?

Are you going to do it?

Now because you like what another person likes, doesn’t make you a copy cat

I hope you get to do the things you really want to do without feeling like you’re copying the next person

You’re not alone.🫂

I can’t wait to receive your next letter

Best wishes,

Fey.

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Dodeye's avatar

Love how you write

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Afolarin Itunu's avatar

I'm a first time reader and I'm glad to be one of your loves that receive this kinda letter

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Glory's Corner's avatar

Awww. As for the therapy part, I think that's totally okay.

We all need therapy.

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Nana Akua Gyawah Oppong -Awuah's avatar

We all do need therapy. For me, no one asked i just knew i needed it . Tobe’s writing is like a therapy honestly.thanks love 🥰🙏

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Kachi's avatar

It's just law school. You'll be fine 😅

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Favour Iredia's avatar

You could be more considerate you know

The way you chest things isnt the way another person will.

A little kindness won’t remove your lungs😍

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Kachi's avatar

Just be happy and know that "all this too shall pass" that's the message...you will be surprised what law school can do to you.. even convince you aren't who you are... you're an imposter...but you will be fine... it's always fine... it's just another moment in life you just have to focus on what, not only makes you happy, but also keeps you happy.

Loads of love Tobeh

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Favour Iredia's avatar

Your reply is okay sha

But what you wrote at first wasn’t it ngl

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Kachi's avatar

What's that?

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Juanitasmiles4u's avatar

That so sad

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Faisal Babalola's avatar

This is your first letter that I’m reading and I have to say this is so beautiful ❤️

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Aisha's avatar

I loved reading this. Thanks Tobe. I hope I discover myself for me too.

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Koya's avatar

Love you Tobe🤎... You write so beautifully and with so much in-depth understanding.. it's okay to be you. You are enough!

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Ru Samson's avatar

Tobe, first of all this was a beautiful read. Secondly, it’s okay to need therapy. It’s okay to realize it through a friend. It’s okay to be a copy cat as a younger sibling, and it’s definitely okay that you’ve forged your own path. Know that your path is still shaping and you have every right to copy, renew and reinvent as much as you want. You are loved and appreciated.

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Ibidunmoye Ayomide's avatar

I don't know if it's me but this writing made a tear drop from my eye🥲.

This is very beautifull

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Precious Afolabi's avatar

You see this idea of being very original and not copying? Comes from overthinking. Thanks for writing to us Tobe. Just read every single one of your letters and I absolutely love reading it. You’re a good Writer ☺️

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