this. all of it. i read this twice, maybe three times.
youāre so right about the pain, the anger the weight. we end up heavy and burnt out, carrying a fire that only scorches us. youāre so brave to even admit this, to hold it up to the light and say, āthis isnāt working anymore.ā
the part about forgiving hit me hard because honestly, who are we if weāre not holding grudges or keeping score? itās like iām scared that if i let it go, iāll lose a piece of myself, like that pain is my identity. but maybe iām not betraying myself by letting go. maybe iām setting myself free.
that reindeer analogy? i love the idea of shedding parts of ourselvesānot because they werenāt important, but because theyāve served their purpose. And yeah, it doesnāt have to be about resolutions or timelines or āfixingā anything. Just about choosing US, showing up for ourselves.
i want to tell you that iām here for it. for you. for this becoming. i want you to laugh this year, to let your chest breathe without the weight of everything itās been holding. itās okay if it feels weird, if it feels like betrayal. growing always feels strange because weāre stepping into the unknown. but i promise you, youāre not alone in it.
weāre doing this together. this year? itās ours.
Oh! Iād hold on to pain too, my love. Iād think it would make me stronger, but how I was wrong.
āNo, fill your cup so much because your cup deserves to be full; you too are a person deserving of love from yourself, of kindness and joyā
Yes, we are deserving of the love we pour into others.
Happy New Year, my Tobaby! Welcome to the best year of our lives yet. I prayed for you too. How is your day going, joor? Even though itās clearly midnight! ššš
Maybe the reason why I love reading tobe's newsletter is because He is authentic! Thank you for allowing us to know you more š, one thing I have learnt from Tobe is that, it's okay to be vulnerable as a man.it doesn't make you less man. I love you Tobe . you're an inspiration to me
Good decision tobaby š¤ā¦ I guess we have decided on the same thing and thatās so beautiful to know; growing and leaving the whole pain behind. Howās your day going joor? āŗļø
this. all of it. i read this twice, maybe three times.
youāre so right about the pain, the anger the weight. we end up heavy and burnt out, carrying a fire that only scorches us. youāre so brave to even admit this, to hold it up to the light and say, āthis isnāt working anymore.ā
the part about forgiving hit me hard because honestly, who are we if weāre not holding grudges or keeping score? itās like iām scared that if i let it go, iāll lose a piece of myself, like that pain is my identity. but maybe iām not betraying myself by letting go. maybe iām setting myself free.
that reindeer analogy? i love the idea of shedding parts of ourselvesānot because they werenāt important, but because theyāve served their purpose. And yeah, it doesnāt have to be about resolutions or timelines or āfixingā anything. Just about choosing US, showing up for ourselves.
i want to tell you that iām here for it. for you. for this becoming. i want you to laugh this year, to let your chest breathe without the weight of everything itās been holding. itās okay if it feels weird, if it feels like betrayal. growing always feels strange because weāre stepping into the unknown. but i promise you, youāre not alone in it.
weāre doing this together. this year? itās ours.
love you always,
a proud Tobabyā¤ļø
My tobabyš„ŗ
Just know that you'll be fine and like my friend always say "let go of this pain so your chest will grow".
How's your day going joor?š
Oh! Iād hold on to pain too, my love. Iād think it would make me stronger, but how I was wrong.
āNo, fill your cup so much because your cup deserves to be full; you too are a person deserving of love from yourself, of kindness and joyā
Yes, we are deserving of the love we pour into others.
Happy New Year, my Tobaby! Welcome to the best year of our lives yet. I prayed for you too. How is your day going, joor? Even though itās clearly midnight! ššš
Happy new year Tobaby may you be great in 2025ā¤
Yeah I literally understand you Tobe
And I will just say that's life
Life it's is full of ups and downs, it unpredictable
I understand the pains and I pray that this 2025 will be a year of laughter
2025 will be a great year for us allšš
2025 will be your best year I promise
Have a blessed year šš„ŗ
Life happens but we need to keep going š„¹ā¤ļø
Hey am new year and so happy to be here
Maybe the reason why I love reading tobe's newsletter is because He is authentic! Thank you for allowing us to know you more š, one thing I have learnt from Tobe is that, it's okay to be vulnerable as a man.it doesn't make you less man. I love you Tobe . you're an inspiration to me
Good decision tobaby š¤ā¦ I guess we have decided on the same thing and thatās so beautiful to know; growing and leaving the whole pain behind. Howās your day going joor? āŗļø
thank you tobeš„ŗā¤ļø
And yessss all we want this year is ur happiness @tobeszn š„¹š
This just put a smile on my face!
Oh Tobe.š„¹
Welcome to 2025.š